General

I have known big ladies and men that seem to have a positive, outgoing presence when they enter a room, and it makes people want to be around them. On the other hand, I've seen many slimmer, "good" looking people on the shy side, that stand off to the side and don't speak up, thus not attracting many looks or responses from others. This situation can be vice versa. It's a human issue, regardless of looks or body type.

There's an old adage that states "I think, therefore I am". In other words, how you percieve yourself makes all the difference.

Thoughts?

Yes, is swagger a turn off or on? Sometimes people go a little far with swagger and the confidence turns into cockiness. But then again, some people can keep a limitation.

By confidence I mean comfort in one's own skin and abilites, and an overall positive attitude. Cocky is usally a sign of insecurity, along with arrogance.

ewww, not Emma!

lol Jane Austen bored me to tears...

But yeah, if confidence is sexy then that makes me repugnant

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